Why the formality is the whole mechanism
A construction contract fixes a scope, a price and a duration. Any change to those three is a change to the bargain, so it needs the same agreement the original bargain had. That is why a change order carries signatures rather than an acknowledgement, and why the amount and the time extension are stated explicitly rather than reserved for later.
The failure mode is predictable. Under schedule pressure the field agrees to proceed on a verbal instruction and the paperwork follows "when things calm down". It does not calm down, the project ends, and the contractor is left arguing entitlement for work nobody disputes was performed. Getting the instrument signed before the work proceeds is unglamorous and it is the entire protection.



